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Hi Mr. Boufford, how are you? I need your help again, please. I hope you will do. I am going to see in some time in future one of my dear whose partner past away recently. How can start my conversation and which words and sentences should I chose to comfort her. How can I say her to look at posit site and she needs to be stronger for the sake of herself and her children’s. Thank you., Tmising Pdn
You are a great friend! Thanks for asking here’s what I suggest. Start with a hug and look her in the eye and let her know she is loved. Remind her that her loved one is never truly lost, that energy never dies it just transforms and that the life they shared, the love they shared lives on in the lives of their children and she should be grateful to have them as gifts of their love expressed fully in form with her, to comfort her as they all journey forward. People come and go in our lives, some stay here longer than others in life but the love, the memories, the joy all stay forever if we allow it. Get her focused and thinking about all she enjoyed with her beloved, knowing he is as close as her breathing, close as her thoughts, close as her heart which is still filled with love.
I love to read all of your aspiration & motivational movie or story you've sent/emailed to me.
I read your motivation story or what ever you've emailed to me everyday but i don't have enough money to buy your
DVD or your books b'cos i can't afford to buy.
Im so lucky & proud to have you as my motivational website.Fyi, i have a problem with my colleagues now a days. They are slowly trying to avoid from me & i can feel it. Eventhough i can faced it patiently, i feel hurt & affraid of losing them as my closed friends.I've been working with them for almost 10-15 years together in the same department in the same company. What i've realized was after i get promoted to one step higher level from them, things were changed. They neglected me for no reason. I've tried very hard to find out why & what went wrong as im still the same. The only thing that change is my time with them as last time we go out for lunch together or having teabreak after office hour but now my time is so precious as my job now is at the marketing site.Compared to last time i was in customer service.
I knew that i can't turn back the clock as i have to move forward. I thought they were happy with what i am now.I know that it's very hard for me to confront them as things getting worse as how they looked & stared at me like im a stranger that they never knew in their eyes. Actually i don't like assuming or judge people by only looking at them.Now, im lonely & i've to pray a lot as what i have now. I really really hope that one day GOD will show me the way to happiness & the road to success. Im also thankful to my beloved husband,my children,my mum,my brothers & sisters because they always support & understand my situation eventhough deep in my heart i still need my friends.
Frankly speaking i really really miss them very much as my best/closed friend. I miss their smile & their life time story.Last time we laughed, cried, chit-chat & exchange ideas but now no more.It's has been one & half year this memories slowly faded but not to me as im hoping them to say hi or hello to me. Not even one of them understand what i felt.I feel like shouting to them & says what have i done wrong??? Everyday im expecting them to ask or call me for a drink or chit-chat in the facebook but this will not happen. I tell myself not to give up as i believe one day i will find my true friend,,i also always tell myself to thinked more positive & accept a new things in life…
I hope you can advice me on this eventhough my english is broken..hope you understand what im trying to tell you as i really need you motivational word to stay me positive..sometimes i give up & sometime i let it go eventhough it's hurts me very much…
Miss them so much..
Regards.Ms.Broken hearted
Dear Heart…OH I understand your pain in this situation and know that there’s nothing worse than feeling alone or like you’ve lost your best friend but I promise you there’s something good hear. Bless your friends, I would absolutely call email and Facebook them I would invite them all to tea or for lunch and share how you feel directly, face to face, heart to heart. I would start by telling each and everyone of them just what they mean to you and your life and how important they are to you! Then I would let it all go, no matter what they say or do, either they will be in your life or not, if not it’s their choice. Then I would start to look at and get to know all the new people around you in your new position! Your new best friend may be that person who just walked by your desk or sent you an email, just be open. Congratulations on your promotion! And remember you have what matters most in your life…your health, your loving husband and your supportive family and of course your faith. And maybe just maybe that’s enough? I know God has already ready shown you the way to be happy and successful and that’s through love, and growth…sometime growth can be difficult or painful just like love but you are successful already (You just got a promotion) So be happy!!! Now be happy, be grateful, understand you are very wealthy to have a loving husband, a supportive family and a job where you are growing and advancing…maybe all those old friends are just a little envious or jealous of all your blessings…Be faithful and trust you are on the right path and God is working everything out to your highest and best good. Many Blessings, David